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I put together this list during the magic time when our daughter was content to hike with us in a backpack carrier (…as long as there was a steady stream of goldfish crackers).
We’d spend hours exploring the trails around our new city, but I have to admit, after a few months of quarantine together and most of my energy going into dragging my booty up a mountain …sometimes the conversation ran a bit dry 😂
This list of questions keeps us chatting, laughing, and learning about each other for hours.
We take turns answering each question and try to ask follow-up questions wherever possible.
There’s a good mixture of fun, deep, saucy, and relationship questions to keep the conversation flowing with your partner.
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295 Fun & Deep questions to ask your partner
1) Who was the worst teacher you’ve ever had?
2) Which three people are you grateful for right now?
3) How is our relationship similar to your parent’s relationship?
4) What was your favourite show as a kid?
5) What can’t you live without?
6) What’s your favourite sex scene from a movie?
7) What’s one of your short term goals?
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8) What movie can you watch over and over again?
9) What’s your favourite snack?
10) What’s your biggest insecurity?
11) What was your bedroom like as a child?
12) Tell me about one of your best work moments
13) Who’s your best friend?
14) How is our relationship different from your parent’s relationship?
15) What’s your biggest dream for the future?
16) Who was your first celebrity crush?
17) What was one of our best kisses?
18) What’s the best advice you’ve ever been given?
19) What’s your greatest fear?
20) Finish this statement: I’m going to make more of an effort to…
21) What makes you a good friend?
22) How would you spend $10,000,000 (10 million dollars)?
23) If you could change one thing about your life today, what would it be?
24) What have you been procrastinating on recently?
25) Describe my perfect day
26) What are one of your happiest memories of our relationship?
27) How can I help take on some of your burden in life?
28) Would you rather speak every language or speak to animals?
29) What boundaries are important to you?
30) What progress have we made towards our goals?
31) True or false: My partner generally likes my personality?
32) What’s your favourite breakfast?
33) What’s standing in the way of your happiness?
34) Tell me what you know about your birth story
35) Where do you want to live?
36) How do you feel about pranks?
37) How do you describe me to other people?
38) What was your first nickname?
39) Have you had any sex dreams recently?
40) Which celebrity do you find annoying?
41) What’s one of your favourite childhood memories?
42) True or false: My partner really enjoys my achievements and accomplishments
43) What makes you feel empowered?
44) Who is your favourite relative?
45) What are our family priorities?
46) What’s your favourite fish?
47) What are some of the biggest lessons you’ve learned from previous relationships?
48) Assuming everyone is safe, what three possessions would you save in a fire?
49) Is there any particular type of clothing that you find really sexy?
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50) What animal would you be and what animal would I be?
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51) What’s the scariest movie you’ve ever seen?
52) What’s your favourite feature of mine?
53) How did your family resolve conflicts growing up?
54) Describe our wedding day (if relevant)
55) Where do you see yourself in 15 years?
56) Can you think of anything that would make our life more fun?
57) What three things are you grateful for today?
58) Where do you want to travel next?
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59) Where’s your favourite place to walk?
60) Do you have any fetishes?
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62) How would you spend $50,000 (fifty thousand dollars)?
63) What’s draining your energy at the moment?
64) What important lesson did you learn recently?
65) What’s your least favourite chore?
66) What (semi-realistic) car would you love to buy next?
67) What do you dream of owning?
68) Do you care what strangers think of you?
69) What’s your least favourite type of weather?
70) How many times would you like to have sex in an ideal week?
71) True or false: My partner really enjoys my achievements and accomplishments
72) When did you last belly laugh?
73) What are the best things about being a parent? (if relevant)
74) What part of yourself are you working on at the moment?
75) When did you last cry?
76) How do I make you feel loved?
77) How has your place in the birth order impacted you?
78) What’s your earliest memory?
79) What was your favourite book as a child?
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80) When did you last check out my butt?
81) What is your favourite cartoon?
82) How many hours of sleep do you need?
83) What’s one of your saddest childhood memories?
84) What impression do you give someone when your first meet them?
85) What would make me happy right now?
86) Do you believe in heaven and hell?
87) What was your high & low of today?
88) Does spanking turn you on?
89) If you had to change your career, what would you do?
90) What do you need to give up, say no to, or let go of?
91) What’s your biggest regret?
92) When were you last jealous?
93) What’s a nice thing I have done recently?
94) What would you name a boat?
95) What did you want to be when you were little?
96) What’s the meaning of life?
97) How are you similar / different to your mum (or mother figure)?
98) What would you write a book about?
99) Are you living a meaningful life?
100) What’s on your bucket list?
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101) If you could know the date and circumstances of your death, would you find out?
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102) True or false: My partner respects me
103) Who “wears the trousers” in our relationship?
104) What’s your favourite sandwich?
105) What do you think happens after you die?
106) Where is your favourite place to have sex?
107) What’s your favourite colour?
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108) What’s the last song you heard?
109) Whats a turn off for you?
110) If you thought I was making a bad decision, what would you do?
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111) What are your thoughts on therapy?
112) True or false: I am really proud of my partner
113) How I make you feel respected?
114) Is there anywhere you’d like to be kissed more often?
115) What traditions would you like us to start?
116) Is there anything that I used to do that you miss?
117) What’s your favourite type of tree?
118) What can I declutter physically or emotionally?
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119) What’s your favourite video game?
120) What do you need to forgive yourself for?
121) Would you rather sky dive or bungee jump?
122) What was your favourite subject in school?
123) What was your favourite childhood outfit?
124) How have you changed in the last five years?
125) Do you care what people you know think of you?
126) What are our goals?
127) What do you think the point of a relationship is?
128) Complete this statement: My favourite feature of yours is…
129) How do you want to be remembered?
130) Do you like sexting?
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131) What’s your dream job?
132) How would you spend $1,000,000 (one million dollars)?
133) What’s your favourite movie?
134) Would you rather have more time or more money?
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135) What would you like for your next tattoo (if relevant)?
136) Where do you see yourself in five years?
137) What’s something that turns you on that you haven’t shared before?
138) True or false: Romance is definitely still part of our relationship
139) What’s your dream house?
140) What’s your favourite type of weather?
141) Are you an optimist, pessimist or realist?
142) What’s your favourite cereal?
143) Do you prefer a side of salad or soup?
144) What was the first album you bought?
145) What’s your favourite chocolate?
146) Do you prefer beach, forest, city or farm?
147) What’s your favourite board game?
148) What’s one of your guilty pleasures?
149) What’s your favourite place locally?
150) How do you feel about being dominated in the bedroom?
151) What would you like to see me work on?
152) Would you prefer a brand new house or brand new car?
153) What are some of your current stresses?
154) Complete this statement: I’m proud of you because…
155) What’s your favourite sex position?
156) Describe the contents of your ideal picnic basket
157) True or false: I can easily list three things I admire about my partner
158) How do you like to relax?
159) What does a successful life look like to you?
160) What do you want to do differently than your parents?
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161) What’s your favourite flower?
162) What do you want your funeral to be like?
163) How are you similar / different to your dad (or father figure)?
164) What’s one of your worst work moments?
165) What does your next week entail?
166) Do you like dirty talk?
167) How can I help you feel loved, honoured and respected?
168) What’s your favourite dessert?
169) What was your worst relationship?
170) Do you like rough or romantic sex?
171) What posters did you have on your wall as a teenager?
172) What’s your earliest memory
173) What are some of your favourite traditions?
174) What is your favourite personality trait of yours?
175) What was your bravest moment?
176) What does retirement look like to you?
177) Is there anywhere new you’d like us to have sex?
178) Describe your dream vacation
179) What’s the worst pain you’ve ever been in?
180) Give yourself a compliment
181) What am I doing now that you like?
182) What song makes you think of me?
183) What do we argue about the most?
184) What’s your favourite way that I touch you?
185) What do you wish I did differently during arguments?
186) True or false: My partner appreciates the things I do in this relationship
187) Would you rather go out for dinner alone or go to a concert alone?
188) What’s your favourite outfit on you?
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189) What language would you like to learn?
190) What’s your favourite place abroad?
191) What’s your favourite thing that I wear to bed?
192) Are you satisfied by how we share responsibilities?
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193) Are you closer with your mum or dad (if relevant)?
194) What’s your favourite spot at home?
195) What’s my best quality?
196) What turns me on?
197) What’s something that you used to believe about relationships, but no longer do?
198) What is the worst thing about being a parent (if relevant)?
199) How would you spend $500,000 (five hundred thousand dollars)?
200) What’s your favourite candy?
201) Do you remember your first orgasm?
202) What are your favourite memories about us dating?
203) What do you want to learn more about?
204) What’s your favourite emotion?
205) Do you think your starsign is accurate?
206) What’s your favourite outfit on me?
207) Describe yourself in three words
208) How do you want me to express my affection to you?
209) What’s your favourite song lyric?
210) Describe one of your favourite sexual experiences we’ve had together
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211) What’s your best holiday?
212) What’s your favourite book?
213) What were our first impressions of each other?
214) Where do you see yourself in ten years?
215) True or false: We rarely go to sleep without showing love and affection
216) What do you need from me right now?
217) Do you love yourself?
218) What makes you angry?
219) What’s our family motto?
220) What would younger you think of your life now?
221) What’s your proudest moment?
222) What’s your favourite sort of text to receive from me?
223) When are you most comfortable?
224) Who’s funnier, you or me?
225) How many children would you want if money was no object?
226) True or false: I feel accepted and liked by my partner
227) What’s an instant turn on for you?
228) What’s your favourite thing that we’ve bought together?
229) Name three things we have in common and three differences
230) When did you know you were in love with me?
231) Is there anything you’ve always wanted to know about me?
232) Complete this statement: Thank you for…
233) What’s your favourite way to masturbate?
234) What’s your favourite drink?
235) Where do you see yourself in five years?
236) What’s your favourite channel?
237) What are your hobbies?
238) When do you feel the most passionate?
239) What show could you watch over and over again?
240) What’s a funny story that makes you laugh every time?
241) What does self care look like to you?
242) What do you think you need to focus on more?
243) What do you want your final words to be?
244) Who’s the most annoying person you know?
245) How do you feel about quickies?
246) Do you wish life had a rewind, or a pause button?
247) What gave you the most joy when you were young?
248) Describe me in three words
249) How would you spend $5,000 (five thousand dollars)?
250) If you were going to watch some porn right now, what search term would you type in?
251) What’s your favourite bird?
252) How do you feel about role play?
253) What are you really good at?
254) Do we have a six second kiss every day?
255) Who inspires you?
256) Do you like erotic fiction?
257) What would you like to buy next for your home?
258) Do you have a least favourite relative?
259) What is your favourite band?
260) What belonging of yours do you think I’d get rid of if I had the opportunity?
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261) What qualities do I admire in others?
262) Do you believe in ghosts?
263) What are the greatest strengths in our relationship?
264) Complete this statement: You show that you put me first when you…
265) What relationships do you admire?
266) What’s your least favourite emotion?
267) What’s the best burger you’ve ever had?
268) Do you like yourself?
269) Who’s tidier, you or me?
270) What’s your least favourite animal?
271) What’s the best pizza you’ve ever had?
272) What’s the worst haircut you’ve ever had?
273) What do you want to make more time for?
274) What’s my perfect date?
275) Would you rather have a private island or private jet?
276) What’s the worst job you’ve ever had?
277) Describe our first date
278) What are our priorities?
279) If you were going to dress me in a new outfit, what would I be wearing?
280) What would I be doing if money and other people’s opinions weren’t holding me back?
281) What brings you joy?
282) What’s the favourite outfit you’ve seen in me recently?
283) What are some of your favourite songs?
284) What was your best birthday?
285) What’s your most regrettable purchase?
286) Is there anything sexual that you would like us to try?
287) Are you an introvert or extrovert?
288) What’s your dream car?
289) What hobby would you like to try?
290) What is your favourite smell?
291) What are some of your favourite movies?
292) What is an unforgivable action?
293) What was your best Christmas?
294) What’s the best concert you’ve ever been to?
295) Do you enjoy alone time?
Conclusion
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